by Dylan on October 31, 2013
I have been juggling a lot lately. I have been juggling for a long time. About 15 years now and I have been doing the same tricks for about 14.75 of those. Why? Because it was easy. I have been focused the last decade and a half on perfecting my patter and audience management. As such I didn’t really need to have a thousand tricks I just needed about 20 that are hilarious. I also spent most of my time trying to figure out how to get more gigs and performing for children. And to be perfectly honest I was lazy.
Because of dislocating my elbow while running a juggling I had to relearn juggling a little bit. Because of that I juggled a little weird for a long time. My left arm was “special”. Some tricks like chops look weird. I have done very little to fix that in the 10+ years since the accident. Luckily I have been juggling a lot more often and that has forced me to rethink how I do certain tricks which in turn has forced me to relearn some tricks. This is great.
The hardest part about juggling is that the most impressive tricks are rarely the most difficult. And the more difficult the trick the less impressive it looks. There is almost an inverse relationship between the difficulty of a trick and the amount of applause you get. This is why a lot of jugglers that I have watched perform make the “Its ok to clap at the hard ones” joke. That one line starts to educate the audience about what is hard and what isn’t.
One of the harder things about learning new jugging tricks is that it is hard to know when they are performance ready. Is it when you can do it flawlessly? or is it when most of the time it is flawless? or is it as soon as you can do it sometimes? I never really know but to be totally honest I tend to be the kind of person that throws a trick into the routine as soon as I do it once. I also rely on failure to get a lot of sympathy tips… that may not be for everyone.
Embracing failure has been an important part of my juggling show for a long time. This was because I never practiced. I just performed and then waited until my next performance to juggle again. I wouldn’t recommend this as a good juggling practice plan. Since I have been juggling for at least an additional hour on top of my performances I have found tricks that used to be difficult are now second nature and I am more likely to try out a new trick or do the same trick with flair.
I still have drop lines that I use all the time but I find myself getting frustrated when I have an evening of the drops. If I drop more then twice during a show it is incredibly maddening since I know that I can do better. I think this is a step forward for my performances but I am not used to getting frustrated by screw-ups.
by Dylan on October 23, 2013
Lately I have been becoming more and more grumpy. Actually angry might be a better word. Or annoyed. I am not sure what the exact term I am looking for is. It all came to a head last night when my exceedingly patient wife sat me down as was like “Duude, what is going on with you?” <— Those are not her actual words. The words she used are far to powerful for the internet and would cause everyone in the world to chill out. And if that happens who will I argue with on facebook?
Work has been the cause of this frustration.
See how I didn’t go into details about what it is. That is because this is the internet and some shit needs to stay private. But it is similar to what I have experienced at other jobs. So I thought I would write out some awesome tips for people that have jobs that force them to work with other people who also have jobs. Say in an office setting.
- Know what your job is – If your job says that you have to do X, then at the bare minimum that is what you need to do. You should do no other things until X is done. If you really want to do Y, X sure as hell better be done.
- Listen to people – When some one is speaking to you, you listen to what they are saying instead of thinking about what you are going to say next.
- Discuss, don’t argue – Arguments get nothing done. Discussion is how the cool kids do it.
- Your co-workers are not out to get you – Even if you think they are, they are probably trying to get through another day. Just like you.
- Be a professional – Every email program I have encountered has spell check… use it. It prevents you from looking like an idiot. Also using italics in an email to signify sarcasm makes you look like even more of an idiot. Using them to give emphasis to a word that you just mis-spelled… makes me not want to work with you.
- Be a part of the Team – I have never worked in an environment that promoted cut-throat tactics for anything. Everyone that works for a company is truly on the same team.
I am not even sure if that is everything. But seriously, work together everyone. Pettiness is never worth the cost. It is possible to work with someone who you don’t like, your co-workers do it everyday.